Sometimes, it takes people years of experience to learn and grow stronger till they finally realize that they deserve so much more than they expose themselves to.
But then, their are others who only have to experience pain, just once, to know how much the blow hurts. And usually it’s very hard to recover from this. But in time and patience it will. There’s no way to rush a healing heart. If you push it and rush into something new, it’s just going to break once more. You can try to replace something but at the end of the day you know that nothing’s fixed. We are all very fragile, some more than others. It doesn’t take much to shatter our hearts. Sometimes, if you let yourself, you’ll mend the pieces. Sometimes, you won’t let go, you’ll neglect the fact that whats done is done and it’ll take years to heal; you’re only hurting yourself if you don’t love yourself. Everyone deserves happiness. Sometimes, sadly, it takes just as much pain to make yourself realize that. With lessons come people who aren’t willing to learn. But at the end of the day everyone walks away with they’re own outlook on life.